Building Intimacy

Continuously getting to know each other is one of the best relationship builders. 

     If you've read my book, Winning Your Relationship Game, you've heard about the Lover's Embrace.  


     Couples hold each other in a lover's embrace and takes turns asking each other open ended questions.  

     Below are some sample questions for your pleasure.  

What is the main thing you remember about where you grew up?

When you were a kid, did you have any pets?

What is your favorite holiday? Why?

If you could meet anyone in history, who would it be?

Did you ever play a musical instrument?

What was your favorite book as a child?

What is your first childhood memory?

What is one thing you miss about being a kid?

What did you want to grow up to be when you were younger?

What was your favorite subject in school?

What was your least favorite subject in school?

What is your dream job?

If you had $10 million, would you still be working?

What was your least favorite job that you've ever had?

Have you ever been fired?

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

What’s the worst vacation you ever took?

What is your favorite movie of all time?

What was the worst movie you've ever seen?

Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?

What are you scared of?

What is the best piece of advice you've received?

What is your biggest regret?

What is your most embarrassing moment?

What is the craziest thing you've ever done?

Tell me about your first car.

If you could have any super power, what would it be?

What is the best thing that happened to you during the past week?

What is the worst thing that happened to you during the past week?

What is your funniest memory of our dating days?

What is the most scared you have ever been?

What is the happiest you have ever been?

What did you always wish you could do?

What did you always want to learn?

If we could spend 24 hours doing anything in the world together, what would it be?

If you could have any superhero power, what would it be?

What do I do that makes you feel the most loved?

What is one of the most romantic times we have had?

What things produce the most stress in our lives? 

What would be an ideal day for you?

What in the future do you look forward to the most?

How much time would you live to spend together each day?

What is the silliest fight we've ever had?

What is your favorite all-time cartoon character?

Do you have any scars?

What’s one thing that very few people know about you?

Have you ever been arrested?

What’s the worst lie you ever told?

What is the worst thing you ever forgot to do?

Do you remember the first thing we said to one another?

What is something you did as a teen that you parents never learned about?

Who was the first person you kissed? 

What’s the craziest dream you’ve ever had? 

What’s the most recent dream you can remember?

Who has been the most influential person in your life?

What is the yuckiest thing you've ever had to do?

Who are the friends from childhood that you wish you still had?

Which one of the world's cultures do you find the most interesting and fascinating?

Who do you need to forgive?

What adventures would you like to have before you die?

What is one way you would like to change?

What is something you’re very concerned about at this time?

What is something you’re very sad about at this time?

Who is your least favorite relative?

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     Wishing you closeness, 


     Allison