Relationships take a lot of time, attention and effort to be winning ones. Sometimes, you may avoid “checking in” because you want to avoid any negative feelings lurking there. You don’t want to mess up a good thing.
Checking in on a regular basis can help you catch issues when they’re small. Ignoring or overlooking things that bother you, leads to bigger resentments which can’t be overcome if they go too far.
These six easy questions will give you a quick gauge of your relationship:
Relationships involve give and take, ups and downs. Mastering the flow is something you’ll be studying for the rest of the relationship. Small problems are easier than big ones, so don’t ignore them. You won’t always feel great about all these questions. Checking in consistently and persistently sets the stage for a winning relationship.
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